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Hey y’all, it’s Vanetta. Let’s get real for a minute. Loyalty is beautiful when it’s reciprocal, rooted in love, and aligned with your values. But when loyalty turns into self-betrayal… it becomes a silent thief. Many of us were raised on scripts written by patriarchy and misogyny—scripts that glorified being “the good woman,” the one who stays , the one who gives , the one who puts everyone else first.  And while it might look noble on the outside, that kind of loyalty often

I know that moment when someone you care about starts to pull back. The text messages slow down, the calls feel different, and suddenly your mind starts spinning. For many women, especially those who’ve experienced anxious attachment, this is the moment that can make your heart race with fear. But here’s the truth: a secure woman doesn’t chase—she rises. She doesn’t lose herself trying to hold on to someone who’s drifting. She doesn’t beg for clarity or question her worth. I

If you’re anything like the women I coach, you’ve spent most of this year doing so much  for everyone else. You’ve held it down, shown up...

Let’s talk about something real. If you’ve ever found yourself giving too much in relationships, clinging to men who won’t commit, or feeling like you’re always the one chasing love… this isn’t about you being “too much” or “not enough.”

Let’s go ahead and say it out loud: the most magnetic, irresistible woman in any room is the one who loves herself . Not in a...

Let’s be real: dating in today’s world can feel like emotional whiplash. One day you’re excited. The next, you’re spiraling because he...

if you’ve ever found yourself falling for someone who couldn’t love you back, this might hit close to home. So many of us are walking...